When husband helps with household chores, taking care of the kids while you have your own me-time, or you have fun date with your girlfriends, or anything easing your burden, why not send him a nice message to thank him and let him feel appreciated.

I once talked to my husband what's the feeling whenever I said something to thank him helping me in the kitchen (oh yes, my husband is a good cook compared to me).

My husband said he find pleasure. He feels happy and looking forward to help me with any task that I need him to help me.

Small things leads to happiness.

And that's how I appreciate our relationship.

Always thanking him whenever he helps me.

Always feel grateful to have someone I could rely on.

There are a lot of messages that you could send to your spouse.

Here is one of so many that I get from Pinterest. 

20 Test Messages That Your Husband Will Love

• Thanks for taking care of me

• You look great today

• Last night was amazing

• You are my favorite blessing

• How about we put the kids to bed early tonight? .... Let's spend time watching your favorite movie

• The kids love spending time with you. You are the best dad

• I was just thinking about our wedding day. What a fabulous day!

• I have a big kiss and a hug waiting for you when you get home (When husband do groceries for me)

• I hope your busy day is going well. I'm thinking of you (and I add extra busy-ness to him asking him to collect my parcel at post office, or buy junk food for me)

• I just now said a prayer for you

• I love being your wife (when he helps me a lot with cooking)

• Thank you for helping me with .....

• Thank you for being my best friend

• I love you

• I love when you hold me (my hand while we are crossing the road)

• You are so easy to love 

• I miss you right now (when husband is away)

• You are such a hard worker (when I asked him to vacuum our carpet and do some house cleaning)

• I am so proud of you (when he managed to give bath + meals to our kids)

• I really appreciate how you .......